Well, apparently, people often feel smitten about foreign lovers, even if they’ve only met online. One Reddit user invited people to share their experiences of meeting a partner online and moving abroad to be with them, so below, you’ll find some of their most fascinating stories. Unfortunately, they don’t all have happy endings, but enjoy scrolling through and keep reading to find a conversation with expat psychologist Gabriela Encina!
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“Deciding to relocate to another country for love is a personal one. I’ve encountered many clients who faced skepticism from their friends and family about such a move,” Gabriela shared.
“Despite the warnings, they followed their hearts, and the outcomes varied. Some found happiness and fulfillment, while others returned home. However, what’s striking is that very few regretted their decision, regardless of how things turned out romantically,” the expert explained. “Cross-cultural relationships can thrive, and I’ve seen hundreds of them succeed. Yet they demand extra effort in communication and a willingness to take ownership of the decision to move abroad.”
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“Secondly, building your social network in the new country is vital for long-term stability and personal growth. It is common to inherit your partner’s relationships (family, friends, etc.) and that’s helpful for the beginning, but after a while, you need your network to create and foster a life aside from the relationship,” Gabriela added. “Lastly, don’t neglect your career path; set clear goals and take steps to maintain financial independence in your new environment.”
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“On the receiving end, patience and support are key. Acknowledge the sacrifices your partner has made, be aware of their needs, include them in your life as much as you can, let them have room to grieve and adapt, and provide them with the emotional anchor they need to adjust to their new life,” Gabriela continued.
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If you’d like to hear more wise words from Gabriela about this topic or anything else expat related, be sure to visit her site!
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