In their ‘About’ section, they additionally write that ’nice girls’ are the women who complain guys are only interested in ‘females of easy virtue.’ They also are the “women who complain that men are shallow for not dating overweight women, while also demanding that their man have washboard abs. The women who hold others to the highest possible standard but have no standards for themselves.” However, they note that ‘nice girls’ shouldn’t be confused with ‘female incels,’ ‘crazy girls,’ ‘nice guys,’ or women who believe ‘men are trash.’ “As a woman, I’ve never heard of a self-proclaimed nice girl turning violent,” one team member said. “However, most women I’ve known have met at least one self-proclaimed nice guy that made them genuinely fear for their safety. Which is not to say that women don’t have the potential to be dangerous, or aren’t dangerous-but I personally have not heard of a woman stalking a man and committing acts of violence because he spurned her advances.” “Many women find themselves seeking validation from others, particularly men, as a way to feel good about themselves,” further explains women’s transformologist, Carolina Stukenberg. She notes that such behavior can also derive from deeper issues, such as dysfunctional family dynamics or childhood adversity, which can result in low self-worth and self-esteem in women. “In such environments, love and affection may have been conditional, leading to the belief that these must be earned through pleasing others,” says Stukenberg. Research from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology also suggests that individuals who thrive on external validation tend to experience higher levels of stress and have a lower overall well-being. Stukenberg additionally notes, “Women who constantly seek validation from others may experience self-doubt, negative self-talk, burnout from prioritizing others, and a tendency to people-please. These behaviors not only diminish a woman’s sense of self but also create a cycle of dependency on others for approval and worth." Women should also take time to establish their own values and affirm their self-worth. If breaking these patterns feels challenging, seeking support from a professional or a proven method can be transformative. Healing these wounds and building confidence doesn’t have to take years; it can be achieved through focused work that brings about lasting change,” concludes Stukenberg. Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Please use high-res photos without watermarks Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB.
