If you’ve done quite a bit of traveling, you’ll know that you can have vastly different experiences around the world depending on what country you’re in and how well you fit in there. In one place, you might be considered crazy if you smile at a stranger while walking down the street. Meanwhile, in another, you might be called rude if you don’t strike up a conversation with the bartender before ordering a beer.
Your experience might also be greatly impacted by how the locals feel about tourists. Globetrotters on Reddit have recently been detailing which countries they’ve met the friendliest locals in and which ones weren’t exactly welcoming towards foreigners. We’ve gathered their most eye-opening replies below, so be sure to upvote the ones you’ll keep in mind for future travels. And keep reading to find conversations with travel experts Alyse, aka The Invisible Tourist, and King Siu of Travel, Eat, Drink!
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“I’m sure many readers will agree when I answer this question with Japan, people genuinely go out of their way to help if you need it,” the travel expert says. “For instance, I’ve been surprised when a lady in Osaka walked me from the train station to my hotel. And another time when I caught the wrong train, a lady jumped off onto the platform to direct me where to go and therefore missed her train… Just selfless encounters like this.”
“The locals in Thailand are also some of the friendliest I’ve ever encountered, too!” Alyse added. “The genuine smiles on their faces are so heartwarming, it’s no wonder Thailand is known as the ‘Land of Smiles.’”
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“Definitely try and ‘blend in’ as much as possible during your trip by learning some basic phrases of the local language (and possible responses!) beforehand,” Alyse says. “Find out any cultural differences (for example, why you should never show the soles of your feet in some Asian countries), catch trains outside of rush hours with luggage where possible, dining etiquette, and cover up appropriately at any places of worship.”
“And overall, try to keep our voices down. No one likes an annoying tourist, but we can amplify the positive aspects of tourism through thoughtful exchanges with locals,” she added.
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“This helps to keep tourism money within the local community who rely on it, rather than it being sent offshore,” she explained. “This applies to restaurants, accommodation, retail, traditional handicrafts and cultural experiences… As tourists, we have the power to funnel our money to where it is needed most.”
And if you’re looking for even more travel advice from Alyse, be sure to visit The Invisible Tourist or check out her book!
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“There were definitely spots where I wasn’t sure what kind of reception I’d receive, but that was less about whether I thought I would find friendly people there and more about whether they would be friendly towards me,” King noted. “There were many reasons for my hesitations, but the main two were how they would react to someone of my ethnicity (as an Asian, I kind of stand out everywhere I go outside of Asia), and how they would feel about a foreigner in general, as geopolitical issues can create tension.”
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“When I stayed in a favela in Rio de Janeiro (which is probably the scariest thing I’ve done to-date, and not something I recommend you do without doing extensive research and taking the proper precautions), once I got over the possibility that I could be killed or kidnapped and got to know the people in that neighborhood, I would say that they turned out to be some of the friendliest and most generous people I’ve ever met,” he shared.
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“When you’re traveling, you are a guest, and just as you’d behave yourself and do your best to not be an idiot when you’re visiting a friend’s house, it’s your job to know how not to upset people who live in the places you visit,” the expert added.
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“Just because a place shares the same language and many of the same values, don’t assume that you don’t need to be mindful of how you’re behaving,” he added. “Even in the U.S., acceptable behaviors can differ greatly across the country. It’s often more difficult because everything is so similar, yet some things are completely different. Take, for example, attitudes on public transit. Someone in Florida would think you’re crazy for taking public transit, but in NYC, it would not even be a topic of conversation.”
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“If you’re American and reading this, I want you to think about what you thought or shouted the last time you were driving and someone with an out-of-state license plate did something stupid on the road,” he added.
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“If you’re traveling for work, research the local business customs. Do you need to arrive at meetings half an hour early or bring a gift? Think about the types of interactions you will be having in that place, and find out how to behave so that you don’t offend everyone around you,” he explained.
But this doesn’t mean you can’t be yourself when traveling, King says. “It just might be a modified version of you,” he noted. “If you think that changing yourself for the situation will be too suffocating and take all the fun out of traveling, I promise that you will have more fun as this modified version of yourself surrounded by friendly people, than the authentic you surrounded by a crowd of hostile locals.”
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