So when Reddit user Velcroshell asked everyone on the platform to share the things they’d heard on a first date that prevented a second one, the responses started pouring in. Continue scrolling to check out the submissions, and don’t miss the chat we had with therapist Jourdan Travers. You’ll find it in between the stories. tillwehavefaces , Andrea Piacquadio/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
According to her, if you want to know if things are going well, ask yourself if your date is genuinely interested in learning more about you and if they ask questions and answer the questions you ask them. “First dates are meant for getting to know a person and seeing if there’s a connection or the potential for one,” Travers told Bored Panda. “Do you share similar interests, hobbies, or a sense of humor? It’s an opportunity to keep things casual, without the pressure of a fancy dinner or adventure followed by an expectation of intimacy.” TheshizAlt , Israelzin Oliveira/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
No_Reason8645 , cottonbro studio/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
Together with his team, Moran conducted two studies. One looked at the actions used on a first date and the other determined how effective they were. For the first study, participants were asked to list behaviors they believed would lead to successful first dates. The second involved coding the dating behaviors from the Netflix show “Dating Around” to rank their power in landing a second date. _TLDR_Swinton , August de Richelieu/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
HereticYojimbo , cottonbro studio/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
mascara_flakes , cottonbro studio/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
myunwastaken , Anastasia Dvoryanova/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
frank-sarno , Katerina Holmes/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
“The purpose of a first date is to get to know the other person and see if there’s potential for a connection. While discussions about money, sex, religion, and politics are important, they’re not necessary during the initial meeting.” You can delve into these subjects later, after the two of you have already established some rapport. easy10pins , Christina Morillo/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
feeen1ks , Joy Marino/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
GrimeyScorpioDuffman , Pixabay/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
Hiraeth1968 , Mike Jones/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
Avera_ge , Welclick Nepal/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
TaraDactyl1978 , Andrew Neel/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
Alex9Andy , Karolina Kaboompics/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
SinfullySinless , Allan Mas/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
midnightsunofab*tch , cottonbro studio/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
itsmeazp , cottonbro studio/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
Sad-Panda94 , cottonbro studios /Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
anon , cottonbro studio/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
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captaintrips_1980 , Amain H/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
badshewolf247 , cottonbro studio/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
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YeetusThatFoetus1 , Ivan Oboleninov/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
Ravo93 , cottonbro studio/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
Irish_Alchemy , Lisa Fotios/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
youhadmeatmerlot7 , Karolina Kaboompics/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
PINHEADLARRY5 , cottonbro studio/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
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Deltaas , Kiran KR/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
OlderAndCynical , Jep Gambardella/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
OilAgitated969 , Ron Lach/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
slammaX17 , Ketut Subiyanto/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
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Gek-keG , HVETS production/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
Friendless_and_happy , William Fortunato/Pexels (not the actual photo) Report
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