Members of the ‘Ask Old People’ community recently shared what it is that they used to do that would make parents sick with worry nowadays. Redditor Ron, going by the moniker ‘ChillwithRon’ on the platform, started a thread about it and fellow netizens had plenty of stories to share. If you’re curious to see what adventures they would embark on as children, scroll down to find their answers on the list below.
Below you will also find Bored Panda’s interviews with the OP himself, as well as with the Professor and Department Head at the Department of Human Development & Family Studies at Colorado State University, Dr. Julie Braungart-Rieker, who was kind enough to answer a few of our questions about the importance of childhood adventures.
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“I wanted to spark a conversation about the stark contrast between the freedom we had as kids and the more cautious approach to parenting today.”
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“There is an interesting balance between fear and excitement when it comes to facing something new or challenging. When children encounter something novel that they haven’t seen or done before—stumble upon a squiggly salamander in the mud, for example—they can feel a little unsure about this creature and they can be curious about it: ‘What is it? Can I catch it and hold it? Will it hurt me?’ So they might be drawn to something like this because it’s exciting,” she explained.
“Being curious about new situations like this one is very instinctual and promotes learning in children. Learning by interacting with the environment directly is a great way for kids to figure things out. In this example, they might learn that this salamander is squirmy, slimy, colorful, muddy, doesn’t bite, and is really fast despite its small size when it runs away. If a child was told the characteristics of a salamander by someone else, like a parent or a teacher, or saw it in a video, they just wouldn’t experience the same excitement because children aren’t interacting directly with the novel creature.”
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But what surprised him the most was the universal nature of some of the activities, like playing outside unsupervised for hours, riding bikes without helmets, or engaging in risky games. “It highlighted how much childhood norms have shifted over the decades,” he said, adding that he was struck by some of the more extreme examples of freedom and risk-taking that people shared, which would be unthinkable today.
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“To my knowledge, we don’t have any solid data or research to show this is the case, but it’s easier to keep track of children now with technology than it was in the past, as now we have cameras, apps on phones, and similar means,” she said. “News about terrible things happening to children is also more readily available now which can fuel parents’ fear and anxiety that something bad will happen to their children.”
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“Getting dirty, falling down, picking up gross things in the mud might be messy but they can be fun to children and it allows them to learn about the world and themselves. If nature and other areas of novelty are not readily accessible to families, they might think about bringing something home that is unusual and even messy to allow their children to explore it and learn more about it.
“Even something as simple as baking something new gives kids an opportunity to get into the ingredients, feel them, measure or weigh them, and mix things which can get messy, stick whatever they made in the oven and see what happens to this mixture after baking,” she added. “That can be exciting to kids because they interact with the ingredients and create something new from them. Parents can be there to assist and watch their kids have fun with this situation.”
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“The biggest change, in my opinion, is the level of parental supervision and the general sense of safety and freedom. When I was a child, it was normal for kids to roam the neighborhood, explore, and find their own fun without constant adult oversight. Today, there’s a much stronger focus on safety and structured activities,” Ron said.
“Technology has also significantly changed childhood, with kids spending more time indoors on screens rather than playing outside. Additionally, societal attitudes toward parenting and child safety have become much more cautious, influenced by a heightened awareness of potential dangers.”
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“I loved riding my bike everywhere and experiencing a sense of freedom that felt boundless,” he added. “We often played games that we invented, which involved a lot of imagination and creativity. I also cherished family road trips, even if we didn’t wear seatbelts all the time, as they were a source of great stories and bonding moments. These experiences were a significant part of my childhood, fostering independence and a love for the outdoors.”
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“However, it’s also crucial to strike a balance between safety and freedom for children today. Encouraging outdoor play and creativity while being mindful of modern-day risks can help create a well-rounded and fulfilling childhood experience. It’s fascinating to see how societal norms evolve, and conversations like this can help us appreciate the past while navigating the present.”
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