Breaking up is never an easy thing to do. It’s uncomfortable, painful and can often feel like it’s blowing up your entire life. So we want to be 100% sure that we’re making the right choice before we finally pull the plug. And if you’re wondering if your reasons for wanting to break up are valid, we’ve got a piece right here that might be able to help.
Women on Reddit have recently been sharing some of the most underrated, yet valid, justifications for ending a relationship, so we’ve gathered their thoughts below. Keep reading to find a conversation with dating coach Amie Leadingham, and be sure to upvote the reasons you wish people would talk about more!
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“Incompatible life goals can play a major part in creating conflict between couples,” the expert noted. “It’s not uncommon for partners to get so caught up in their shared interests and hobbies that they overlook the importance of aligning their core values. If partners have fundamentally different visions for their future (e.g., one wants children while the other doesn’t), it can lead to an impasse in the relationship.”
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“Suppose a partner consistently neglects their personal hygiene, even after the issue has been addressed through open communication and poor hygiene habits continue to cause a persistent decline in intimacy,” she added. “In that case, it may become an unresolvable issue and cause the relationship to end.”
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“One practice I have my clients do is to imagine if they had to deal with a particular issue 10 years from now, assuming everything else in the relationship was perfect. If they say they would not stay in the relationship under those circumstances, it signifies that the issue is a non-negotiable and warrants leaving. However, if they say they would stay, it suggests that the issue is something they would be willing to compromise on and does not necessarily warrant a breakup,” the expert shared.
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