If you find yourself disagreeing with this person’s actions, we encourage you not to downvote the post. Instead, kindly express your opinions in the comments. We recommend maintaining politeness and articulating your thoughts with well-constructed arguments. I (M49) have been with my wife (56) for almost 20 years now. We have one daughter (20) who is currently in college and still living with us.
Over the past few years, especially after she went through the “change” we have been slowly drifting apart
Share icon Image credits: Alex Green (not the actual photo) We no longer sleep in the same room because she says that I become erratic with my dreams and move too much. That’s fine.
We have not been intimate for over 10 years now
Share icon Image credits: Ron Lach (not the actual photo) I try to initiate things but she just says not to touch her. Even if I sit by her, she gets up and moves. I have always been a hopeful romantic. I no longer have the friend I once had.
She’s not interested in counseling and I have brought up the D word during an argument but it seemed to really upset her
Share icon Image credits: Kelly Sikkema (not the actual photo) We have not talked about it since. The reason I’m still here is because if I were to leave I don’t know how she would be able to support herself because she only has a part-time job. I’m just trying to hang on until my daughter finishes college, which will be in a few months. My SO keeps threatening to move out every time we argue but she never does. I tell her if she’s not happy here to stay with one of her friends. If she told me she had a BF it wouldn’t even bother me. I just want her to be happy and enjoy her life, but I want the same too. So, my question is AITA for wanting out of this relationship? Moderator’s note: Please note that the images included in this article are for illustrative purposes only and do not represent the actual individuals or items discussed in the story. If you have a comparable experience or story you’d like to tell, we welcome your submissions. Click here to share your story with Bored Panda. Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda!
