The woman said that she and her husband have been having increasingly bigger disagreements over money and that the tension has just reached new heights now that he’s begun collecting sports memorabilia. According to her, the couple has tried both joining and separating their finances, but neither option seems to fully work for them, so she’s turning to the internet to vent her frustrations and is ready to welcome any advice people might have.
This couple can’t see eye to eye when it comes to their spending habits
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And the wife can’t help but feel that her husband is invalidating her
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There are pros and cons to both combining finances and keeping them separate
Share icon Image credits: Mikhail Nilov / Pexels (not the actual photo) According to a 2022 survey, about 43% of couples who are married, in a civil partnership, or living together have joint assets. When you share all accounts with your partner, you rely on them to make the right money decisions; your own financial health depends on their habits. But this arrangement also requires you to give away some of your autonomy. If you and your partner have both established careers and financial assets, fully combining finances and sharing all accounts may be a challenge. As the story pointed out, if a couple is not earning and spending equally, conflicts may arise. So who is better off? Those who keep their finances separate or those by share everything? To answer this question, researchers conducted six studies with more than 38,000 participants. Those six studies included a variety of methods (e.g., cross-sectional, longitudinal, and experimental data sets) and were replicated in both individualistic and collectivistic cultures. Their conclusion was that couples who put all of their money together were happier and less likely to break up, compared to other couples who kept some, or all, of their money separate from each other. However, the author of the post and her husband aren’t the only ones who are having these problems. Another survey from 2023 discovered that a whopping 64% of couples admit to being “financially incompatible” with their partners, with different philosophies about spending, saving, and investing their money. At least these two are trying to talk it out and settle their disagreements.
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