That’s exactly what happened to one Reddit user who thought she was living her fairytale with her supportive boyfriend, when she found out that his “sister-like” friend is actually his ex. More info: Reddit
Woman suspicious of her boyfriend who keeps hanging out with his “sister-like” friend who he swears is just his childhood buddy, later finds out she’s actually his ex
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After a few too many drinks at a regular Friday get-together with friends, one of the man’s buddies revealed a secret, saying the “sister” is the man’s high school sweetheart
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“I’ve seen the way he looks at her”: The woman suspects her boyfriend still has feelings for his ex, as the way he looks at her seems more than “friendly”
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The woman confronted her boyfriend after finding out he dated his “sister-like” friend in high school, and he admitted to it but still swears he doesn’t have feelings for her
So, here’s the tea: 21-year-old Olivia (not her real name, but let’s roll with it) met her boyfriend fresh out of high school, all thanks to a mutual friend who had just gone through a rough time. Her boyfriend, who works in healthcare (so yeah, total nurturing vibes), quickly won her over, and before she knew it, they were deep in a two-year romance. Life was great—they had their little Friday night rituals with friends, she was working two jobs to support herself (even though her boyfriend was more than willing to help out), and things seemed picture-perfect. Until, well, they weren’t. Here’s where the friendly “sister” comes into the picture. You probably know the type, the one who’s “practically family” but not exactly. As soon as they met, Olivia had a weird feeling about this woman, but she just ignored it. After all, her boyfriend swore up and down that this friend was nothing more than a childhood buddy. But seriously, when someone keeps making snarky comments about your age, like asking if you’re old enough to drive, it’s hard not to raise an eyebrow, right? And, as it turns out, Olivia was right to have a few suspicions about this “friend”. On a typical Friday night get-together with friends, one of her boyfriend’s old buddies decided to let Olivia in on a little juicy secret. After a few too many drinks, this guy spilled the beans. Turns out, the so-called “sister” was actually her boyfriend’s high school sweetheart. Wait, what?! High school sweethearts? The same girl who couldn’t resist tossing snarky remarks her way? Yup, that’s the one. Olivia was shocked, but she somehow managed to keep it together and waited until they were back home to confront her boyfriend. And guess what? He confessed. Yep, they had dated way back in the day, but he promised he was over her. Sure, okay, but there’s just one teensy problem—Olivia had seen that look he gives his “sister.” You know, the one that says, “I’m so over you…except, maybe not”? Yeah, that one. Share icon Image credits: RDNE Stock project / pexels (not the actual photo) Now Olivia feels stuck, wondering if she’s overreacting or if she’s totally justified in feeling betrayed. Two years is a long time to keep something like that on the down-low, especially when he’d assured her from the start that there was nothing romantic between him and his “sister” friend. So, was this a secret or just a boyfriend keeping his love life private? When it comes to relationships, the line between privacy and secrecy can get a little blurry. Therapists agree that, while everyone deserves a little privacy, hiding something as juicy as an ex turned “sister” is more like a ticking time bomb than harmless discretion. Sure, you might think you’re dodging drama by keeping that little nugget of history under wraps but, when the truth finally spills, it can get pretty ugly. It’s important to ask yourself why you’re keeping something secret. If it’s to avoid conflict or protect your partner’s feelings, it might actually be causing more harm in the long run as it can lead to trust being broken. Trust is the backbone of any relationship, and when it’s cracked, well, good luck standing tall. Once trust takes a hit, you start seeing red flags everywhere and suddenly, those innocent gestures between friends don’t seem so innocent anymore. You know that feeling of betrayal when you find out your partner has been keeping secrets from you? Well, it can create doubts that are hard to shake off. And the result? Constant suspicion, second-guessing, and anxiety. Rebuilding trust after a secret like this is going to take a whole lot of honest conversations, and maybe a few less “sisterly” hangouts. What’s your take on this mess? Do you think Olivia’s right to be suspicious, or is she reading too much into it? Drop your thoughts in the comments below!
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