Giving a toast at a wedding can be a daunting task. In 2022, there were over two million marriages in total in the U.S. That’s more than two million chances for a great or terrible speech. Most guests want to hear a speech that’s not too long, somewhat humorous, and, most importantly, without any inappropriate remarks toward the bride and groom. But not every person who makes a wedding toast gets that memo. Most people who have been to a wedding or two have witnessed a speech that made all the guests look sideways and cringe in embarrassment. Wanting to know some of these stories, one netizen decided to ask others to share their wildest stories. “Giving a toast at a wedding is common,” the person wrote. “What’s the worst thing you’ve heard someone say while they were giving one?” “A truly great wedding toast is all about balancing heartfelt emotions with a sprinkle of humor and relatability,” wedding planner Jamie Wolfer tells Bored Panda. She gave our readers more tips on how to craft a perfect wedding toast and shared the most memorable speech gone wrong from her years of wedding planning. More info: Wolfer & Co | Jamie Wolfer on YouTube | The Union Podcast
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“Start by introducing yourself,” Wolfer suggests. “The DJ probably already announced your name, so no need to say, ‘For those who don’t know me…’ Just a simple, ‘Hi everyone, I’m Jamie, the bride’s sister,’ works perfectly.”
Then, thank the bride and groom for including you in their special day. “You can also thank the parents or anyone who played a significant role in the wedding. It’s a great opportunity to show appreciation for the beautiful day, the food, and the company.”
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Even if you’re not a seasoned veteran of life, offer the newlyweds some wisdom. That can include some heartfelt advice or well-wishes for the couple’s future. Keep it genuine, though – no one likes clichés. And to end the toast, close with a salutation. “Something like, ‘Now, if everyone can raise a glass to the bride and groom, here’s to a lifetime of love and happiness. Cheers!’” Wolfer suggests. “Simple, sweet, and to the point.”
The most important thing is to be confident during your speech. “Own that stage!” Jamie says. “Even if you’re nervous, fake it till you make it. No one knows if you skip a part, so just keep going.”
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One mistake that some people make before giving a toast is indulging in some serious drinking. “Don’t drink too much before your speech,” Wolfer warns. “A little liquid courage might seem like a good idea, but it can quickly turn into a rambling, awkward mess. Trust me, everyone will thank you for keeping it together.”
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Her other piece of advice is to practice. “Don’t wing it. Even if you’re a natural speaker, a well-practiced toast will always come off better. Run through it a few times in front of a mirror or with a friend to get comfortable with your material.”
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If you’re giving a toast, there’s always the obligatory raise of the glass. So don’t forget your drink when you walk up to the stage. “When it’s time to toast, make sure you have your glass ready. If you forget, no biggie—just raise an imaginary one and keep the humor light,” Jamie advises.
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“But then he took it a step further and pulled out a slideshow of the groom’s most embarrassing moments, complete with captions and sound effects.”
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“It was a bit of a mess, and he ended it with ‘God bless the mashed potatoes’ before stumbling off the dance floor. The whole room erupted in laughter, and it became a family legend, but it was definitely not what he had planned!”
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